She IS if society and people judge everyone by the way they LOOK. Otherwise, unless everyone is going to take a DNA test and wear it on their foreheads, she is permitted to do so, ESPECIALLY if that societal sub group accepts her as a member. There is a difference between the real world and the world you want.

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