I taught my children chess. It is a real war game. It teaches that pawns are expendable…most of the time. It teaches that NO piece no matter how powerful or valuable is immune to sacrifice for the safety of the King. It also teaches that the place is behind the board and moving the pieces not IN the battle. It seems it may taught you similar things

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